Mediation in New Jersey
Mediation is a process in which a neutral third party — the mediator — guides spouses toward a settlement they both can accept. Rather than leaving the outcome to a judge, mediation gives you and your spouse more control over the decisions that affect your family.
What Is Mediation?
In mediation, a trained, neutral mediator helps both spouses communicate, identify the issues in their divorce, and work toward an agreement on matters such as alimony, child support, child custody, property division and marital debt. The mediator does not take sides; instead, the mediator facilitates a fair and productive discussion.
Benefits of Mediation
- Lower cost — Mediation is generally far less expensive than litigating a divorce in court.
- More control — You and your spouse decide the outcome rather than having a judge impose one.
- Less conflict — Mediation reduces the emotional toll and conflict that often accompany a contested divorce.
- Confidentiality — Mediation is a private process, unlike public court proceedings.
A Court-Approved Mediator
Karen Meislik is approved by the Supreme Court of New Jersey as a mediator. Her experience as a certified matrimonial attorney allows her to help clients come to a resolution without the tremendous expense of litigation.
Mediation and Legal Representation Are Separate
By law, mediation and legal representation must be separate. A mediator cannot represent either spouse, and a lawyer who represents you cannot act as your mediator. If you participate in mediation, it is important to understand that the mediator is neutral and does not provide legal advice to either party. You may still wish to have your own attorney review any agreement before you sign it.
Is Mediation Right for You?
Mediation works best when both spouses are willing to communicate and compromise. To learn more about whether mediation is a good fit for your situation, read why you should choose a certified matrimonial lawyer and contact our office to discuss your options.